Id like my wedding planner to be chic and sophisticated. I wouldnt want them to be too trendy, but I would like to see them with some trendy element that show a sense of style and fun. I would want them to have nice hair and well kept finger nails. Also, nice jewelry and accessories.Think business attire, but with a sense of fun, style and a little bit of cheekiness.I wouldnt want my wedding planner to look like they bought their whole outfit off a store rack. That doesnt show much personality or creativity. Thats what you want in someone thats planning your wedding. Think a well fitted pants suit, but with a fun colored tank underneath. Say, Hot Pink. Then, have a black bag with maybe a hot pink sash tied around it. Get some jewelery that isnt matchy, matchy but compliments the color scheme. Also, consider a pair of trendy sunglasses. That way, you are classic, fun and have a small sense of modern trends. Also, I hate to say. But, I would consider someone with name brand designer appear to be more. If you are wearing Chanel sunglasses and carrying a Prada Bag; Im going to see you as being a bit more on the higher end. Even if you are an affordable wedding planner, people want to see you as being able to give them what they cant have. So, a 100K wedding on the 15K budget. If youve got knowledge in higher end brands designs, youll seem more qualified. You should try watching that show, "Whos Wedding Is It Anyway." on the Style Network.court modern wedding dressesYou should talk to your Doctor and talk to a therapist who can help you deal with your past.I have anxiety and depression and have been using an alternative therapy called Emotional Freedom Technique. Since using it I have been feeling a lot better. Its very good at getting rid of all kinds of negative emotions and dealing with all kinds of issues quickly. It does sound bizarre but does work. Might be something that can help you with you deal with your past.